Finding HER….
Hey Sis,
It’s been a while. Let’s catch up!
Life has a funny way of life’n. I feel like its hitting everyone right now in various different way. Some harder than others of course. I’m actually on this journey in life where I’m really trying to find her, find ME again. You know what I mean? Like Who is Norrie? What does Norrie like? Like, what is life for Norrie outside of business? Time and time again, I believe we get so caught up in our businesses, our children, or even out spouses and loved ones, that we forget who we are and more importantly…WHOSE we are! For my sisters who have it all together, because sometimes I feel as though i’m all over the place. What do you do to give back to you? What are your self care routines or things you like to do?
As y’all know, i’m an empowerment coach…so by nature my job is to help empower other people. Why is it that some times, I can’t seem to empower myself? Crazy how that works right? Often times I find myself using reverse psychology in order to trick myself into getting advice. I act as I’m my own client so that I am able to take my own advise. Because if I don’t, Sis, I’m not even going to take my own advice. I give it but most times i cant even listen to it myself. So, to my sister who is struggling…It’s OKAY. Things will get better. Prayer works wonders. In this season, I’ve realized that with many things, It’s going to require a sense of strength, trust and submission only to God. See sometimes we try to control everything in our lives, when God is like Babygirl, stop stressing, stop worrying. That’s not your job. You’re trying to fight a battle that’s not even yours. Sis, I had to realize I needed to stop fighting. You ever feel so tired and trained both mentally and physically? It’s because we keep trynna fight things that aren’t in our control. When we release and submitt all of our worries and stressors to God, I promise things will start to feel so much better. Literally a sense of relief will come upon you (i’m really talking to me y’all). You will be more at ease, less tired, more focused. It’s because you literally stopped trying to fight God. Thats a fight we will never win.
As I learn more about me, what I like or don’t like. What I want and don’t want. I’m going to really enjoy this process, take my time. Fully submit my worries and struggles over to God because he has a plan over my life that I know will work wonders! I’m going to give back to me more, get in my word, pray more and take time to date me. Grow spiritually, mentally and physically. Let’s lock in together sis. What are somethings you are committed to doing for yourself? Let’s take this journey together. Day by Day, I am working toward finding and BECOMING HER! The woman I know that I am destined to be. Someone who is HEALED. EMPOWERED & RENEWED (H.E.R.) God has his hands on me and I most definitely know he has a will and a purpose for your life as well. Stay tuned for the journey!
Norrie Yavonne